grams' money

we all love gram for the money they give our kids. That is all fine and well. nothing wrong when they hand our kids a 20.00 or the what ever it is. We like that. It shows they want to help us and the kids love the idea they get this too. But when gram starts to tell the kids they need money to all things and that it is more important than other things. To marry someone with money to take care of you. Or if you don't have it you are less of a person, that is so not right. It has been said that the love of money is root of all evil. You can't have money and a good heart. One will cancel out the other. God chose the poor. If you can't live if you lost all things, you need to re evaluate your life. My mom couldn't survive if that happened. To many get wrapped up in what is being left to whom. Who is in my will and who is not.. so what. If that is what is consuming your life you need some real help. You need to be more concerned with the person that what they have. I see it this way, I don't care where you come from or what you have or don't have, it is who you are a person. Respect is given and honor is earned. Respect you simply for the sake that you are human. Most people what to know how much you make and all of that. what happened to the fact of you are person first?