grandkids

When you have these kids who think gram and gramps are the king and queen of this hill, that is so cool. They are the ones who don't live with them. It is good that they give them money on the once in the while and such. They super gifts and all.

It is those who live with them it is the problem. They teach them things like, we are the only ones who will take care of you. You mom or dad didn't want you so we will. They give them the idea they will have everything. then they come to say things, I am on retirement I can't afford this.

The kids have to live with the old people and have to have the odorous feeling that kids are really laughing at them. Being raised with the ideals of those who feel that girls who call a boy is the town whore. Good kids stay with in the city that they grew up in because the family is there. You never leave. If a girl or woman is seen leaving the house at night all of a sudden is working the streets or a bar and is no good. If you stay in too much you are mysterious and hiding things. Sneaky. You can't been seen with man if you are to be married or dating or are married who is not your husband because you are now sleeping with him.
You can't be a friend or helping him in some real fashion.
They must stay in the house because if they have a pain some one must help them.
They have to be waited on for all things.
If you do any kind of work, it is to their specifications. If not it is now right in any form.
If asked to do something you will do it right then and there. Not long enough to get up and do it
it is now.
If asked to jump, not how high. for how long then how high.
Don't do as they do.
Grandparents are wiser people they lived in the Great Depression of course they know better.
I give you there are some parents who do wrong by kids. Most don't .
They will talk behind your back and not have the guts to say it to your face.
If you approach this, it is," oh nothing " They will never say anything against an old person.
We need to start to speak of this. Iam. My family will drain me dry and say I needed this. I am the dark sheep because I left the wonderful life of small town America. Weirton WV
That place died 30 yrs ago. Nothing socially, economically or diverse enough to keep even the of a gang in town. I am going to stay there? Every one knows when you take a shit and hands you toilet paper. You expect this place to come back over night with jobs and education. You can't find either. It is pretty bad when the crime leaves town.